If there’s one thing that comes out of all the relationship research, it’s that if you are not over your ex, your chances of finding love again are halved.
Energetically cutting ties so you are not too positive or too negative about your ex and your previous relationship is vital.
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I can speak from personal experience too, where I was once on the date from hell. It was not long enough after a breakup. All was going well until my date asked about my previous relationship. I just started crying and couldn’t stop, and he spent the date consoling me. Needless to say, a second date was not on the cards.
3. Write a letter to your ex.
Try writing a really honest letter to your ex without holding back – let loose and really give your ex a piece of your mind or clear the air and confess the mistakes that you made in the relationship.